Should You Join a Support Group for Parents of Children with Asperger's Syndrome?

A new diagnosis of Asperger’s Syndrome can wreak havoc with the inner workings of a family. You may be tempted to become angry, get bitter, or even take out some of your frustrations on your mate or child. In this instance, a diagnosis that points to an incurable condition quite often demands the same grieving process as a death would. At the same time, there are countless new doors that can open for you and your child, but you might need some help recognizing these opportunities. This is where support groups come in.

Reasons to join a support group for parents of children with Asperger’s Syndrome are plentiful:

* Network with parents whose children also have received the Asperger’s Syndrome diagnosis. They may know great doctors, hospitals, clinics, and other such locales where your child may receive better treatment than the clinics you thought of. * Find a place to voice your feelings. It would be simple to say that any parent can take the diagnosis of Asperger’s Syndrome in a stride and not have it have some kind of adverse effect. At the same time, how you deal with your knowledge greatly influences the way the children with the condition take their diagnosis. Let it all hang out in the relative safety of the support group, but then return home with a positive attitude and an advocating spirit that will support your child all the way. * Learn ways in which to support your child. This is done on a trial and error basis, but you can cut down considerably on the amounts of errors you make simply by learning from other parents’ experiences. As a matter of fact, this might actually open the doors to some wonderful learning experiences! * Advocacy is a learned trade, and as a parent you are your child’s primary advocate in the school system and in other venues as well. Learning how to be an advocate requires finesse and will be greatly sped up by the life experiences of others. While at the onset it might appear a huge task, when broken down into smaller parts and learned from the ground up, advocating for your child in the school system really does not have to be a complicated undertaking. * Connect with parents who know how you feel. There is strength in numbers and when you can actually see that you are not alone, you are certain to take heart for the task ahead. Socializing with others who are in a similar boat can actually help you look on the positive sides of the condition and you might be able to pass on this kind of experience and knowledge to your child.

Remember that a support group made up of parents who also have children with Asperger’s Syndrome is not a cure all and will not suddenly and magically make it all better. It is, however, a tool that you can use to your and your child’s advantage and to learn how to deal with the condition